Strangest Thing Men Desire...
and how it can make him crazy for you....
Have you ever felt attracted to a guy without knowing WHY?
Maybe you’ve even had feelings for someone you’d rather not be attracted to. Why does this happen?...
How can you fall in love even though your conscious mind resists it?
Experiences like these hint at the subconscious world driving our feelings of attraction. That hidden world is all about emotional reactions. Emotional reactions we don’t consciously control.
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What if I told you there is a kind of relationship “thirst” all men experience. A kind of Desire that’s impossible for him to Satisfy on his Own. He needs YOU to satisfy his needs and desires.
When you accomplish this, you’ll be astonished by how loving, attentive, and interested he is in a committed long-term relationship.
His hero instinct is a subconscious drive to gravitate toward people who make him feel like a hero. But it’s AMPLIFIED in his romantic relationships.
Some ideas really are life changing. And for romantic relationships, this is one of them ...
Triggering his instinct is one thing....
Learning how to do it over and over again requires a few tips and tricks.
THE FACT IS! women don’t need someone to rescue them. Especially in this day and age. Yet here’s the ironic truth…
MEN STILL NEED SOMEONE TO RESCUE! Because it’s built into their DNA to feel like a provider and protector.
This one tiny difference in male and female genetics creates a BIG difference in what attracts men to the opposite sex. He feels drawn to any woman who allows him to step into the role of a hero. Because his instincts naturally cause him to thirst for that social role.
Here’s the really cool thing about this. He won’t even know why he feels so drawn to you! Which is why you can use this method under the radar. It triggers attraction at a subconscious level.
He’ll feel the undeniable tug on his emotions. But if his buddy asks him why he’s so crazy about you, he won’t be able to put it into words.
There is a hidden world driving our feelings of attraction. No doubt about it. But we now have the power to see one powerful part of that hidden world. And it’s something YOU CAN CONTROL!
It’s not something only chemists can see, like blood levels of the bonding hormone, oxytocin. Rather, it’s something you can see all around you once you learn to spot it.
How do you use this trigger to build passion and romance?
Well, the easiest way to trigger his instinct is to translate your desires into a language that speaks to his natural drive to be a provider. His desire to serve, love, and protect. The desire to be your hero.
You already have needs and desires. Why not learn how to translate those desires into requests that trigger his instinct?
Then relax into the warmth and passion he is only capable of showing once you have triggered his instinct and desire.
References:
Harry's Masculinity Report 2018 https://s3.amazonaws.com/harrys-cdnx-prod/manual/Harry%27s+Masculinity+Report%2C+USA+2018.pdf - Men are happiest when a part of something where they feel needed and valued.
Anderson, Cameron & Hildreth, John & Howland, Laura. (2015). Is the Desire for Status a Fundamental Human Motive? A Review of the Empirical Literature. Psychological bulletin. 141. 10.1037/a0038781. - Male need for respect.
Murray, S. H., Milhausen, R. R., Graham, C. & Kuczynski, L. (2016). A Qualitative Exploration of Factors That Affect Sexual Desire Among Men Aged 30 to 65 in Long-Term Relationships. Journal of Sex Research, DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2016.1168352 - Men want to feel wanted and needed.
Terri D. Fisher, Zachary T. Moore, Mary-Jo Pittenger. Sex on the Brain?: An Examination of Frequency of Sexual Cognitions as a Function of Gender, Erotophilia, and Social Desirability. Journal of Sex Research, 2012; 49 (1): 69 DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2011.565429 - Men think about biological needs (e.g. Hero Instinct) more than women.
Gender Differences in Implicit Self-Esteem Following a Romantic Partner’s Success or Failure," Kate A. Ratliff, PhD, University of Florida, and Shigehiro Oishi, PhD, University of Virginia; Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, online Aug. 5, 2013. - Men have lower self-esteem when their partner succeeds and they fail (i.e. they don't feel needed/irreplaceable).
Canevello A, Crocker J. Creating good relationships: Responsiveness, relationship quality, and interpersonal goals. J Pers Soc Psychol. 2010;99(1):78-106. doi:10.1037/a0018186 - Showing him you believe in him and he's the one for the job.
https://www.bu.edu/articles/2023/the-science-of-attraction-why-do-we-fall-in-love/
Reis HT, Lemay Jr EP, Finkenauer C. Toward understanding understanding: The importance of feeling understood in relationships. Social and Personality Psychology Compass. 2017:11(3):e12308. doi:10.1111/spc3.12308 - You value his point of view and abilities.