You must heal from past trauma to develop a secure attachment with your boyfriend. Tackling these unresolved feelings boosts your emotional wellness and fortifies your relationship's foundation. Healing from Anxious Attachment style and managing your triggers will enhance your communication skills, deepen trust, and build a stronger bond. This intentional healing journey is a beautiful opportunity for you and your partner, creating a supportive atmosphere where love can thrive. I believe that the alternative to carrying around your trauma is that men will continue to pull away from you.  Embrace the process—investing in your healing is genuinely an investment in the bright future of your relationship! Healing past trauma can play a significant role in building a secure attachment style with your boyfriend. Addressing and working through unresolved issues can lead to healthier communication, increased trust, and a deeper emotional connection. Understanding your triggers and patterns can foster a safe and supportive relationship, allowing both partners to thrive. Prioritizing your healing journey ultimately benefits you and your relationship as a whole. What other ways can help build a better relationship with your boyfriend?